Want to build a Workflow system that Reconstruct your life?: 5 Step-by Step tools for Busy Single Moms

Hey there, fabulous mamas! 🌟 I know you’re juggling a million things—full-time job, kids, and maybe even that dream business you’ve been nurturing on the side. It can feel overwhelming, right? But I’m here to tell you that with a solid workflow system, you can streamline your life, gain some precious time back, and reduce that stress.

Let’s dive into how you can build a workflow system from scratch, tailored specifically for your incredible life!


Understanding What a Workflow System Is and Why You Need It

Let’s start with the basics. What exactly is a workflow system? In simple terms, it’s a structured way to manage your tasks, responsibilities, and goals. Think of it as your personal roadmap to navigate the busy, beautiful chaos of life. As a single mom, you’re not just managing your own tasks but also those of your children, while trying to grow your side business. A good workflow system can help you feel more in control and less like you’re constantly playing catch-up.

Why You Need It

Here are five main reasons why creating a workflow is a must in your daily life, keep in mind that this can vary from person to person, but the core reasons remain.

  1. Clarity: A workflow system brings clarity to your day-to-day responsibilities, allowing you to see what needs to be done and when.
  2. Efficiency: It helps you streamline tasks, so you’re not wasting precious time on things that don’t matter.
  3. Reduced Stress: With a plan in place, you can tackle your day with confidence instead of chaos.
  4. Balance: You’ll have more time to spend with your kids and to work on your business without feeling guilty.
  5. Growth: As you become more organized, you’ll find you have the mental space to think creatively and grow your side business.

Identifying Your Priorities: What Matters Most?

Before you can build a workflow system, you need to get clear on your priorities. This can be tricky, especially when it feels like everything is important. Take a moment to breathe and think about what truly matters in your life.

I read this book called- “One Thing” by Gary Keller where he emphasized the importance of understanding, your purpose, and second aligning your priorities with the purpose. It is imperative that you know at what your purpose is, nonetheless, priorities are crucial for success. This is where you dedicate lots of your time and energy, and it would be a shame that you wasted it on the wrong things.

This is why, you must figure out your priorities before you can create a workflow.

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Have three priorities per day

Exercise: The Priority List

  1. Grab a notebook or your favorite note-taking app.
  2. List everything you have to do in a week—work, parenting, business tasks, household chores.
  3. Next to each item, assign a priority level: high, medium, or low.
  4. Finally, circle the top three high-priority tasks.

These three tasks are your non-negotiables. They’re what you will focus on each week, ensuring they get done first. This helps you gain clarity and avoid feeling overwhelmed.

Choosing the Right Tools for Your Workflow

Now that you know what your priorities are, it’s time to choose the tools that will help you organize your workflow. Thankfully, there are plenty of user-friendly options that cater to busy moms like us!

Some of these tools, I use daily and it’s helped me stay consistent in my priorities and work.

Recommended Tools

  • Digital Calendars (Google Calendar or Apple Calendar):
  • Great for scheduling appointments, work meetings, and reminders for kids’ activities.
  • Perfect for keeping track of to-do lists and breaking projects down into manageable steps. You can use it for personal use or your business.
  • Time Blocking:
  • This technique involves scheduling specific blocks of time for different activities. It’s like giving your tasks a time “home.”
  • Note-taking Apps (Evernote or Notion):
  • Use these to jot down ideas for your business or notes for your kids’ school projects.
  • Automation Tools (Zapier or IFTTT):
  • These tools can automate repetitive tasks, saving you time and mental energy.

Action Step

Choose one tool from the list that resonates with you and set aside 30 minutes to explore its features. Don’t overwhelm yourself by trying to use them all at once; just start small and one at a time!

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MAKE IT HAPPEN

Creating a Step-by-Step Plan to Implement Your Workflow

With your priorities identified and tools chosen, it’s time to put your workflow system into action. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you get started:

Step 1: Set a Weekly Review Day

Choose a day that works best for you (Sunday evenings can be a great time) to sit down and plan out your week. During this time, review your tasks, update your calendar, and set your goals for the upcoming week.

Step 2: Block Out Time for Your Priorities

Using your digital calendar, block out specific times for your high-priority tasks. If one of your priorities is to spend quality time with your kids, schedule it in—don’t leave it to chance!

Step 3: Break Down Tasks

For your side business, break down larger projects into smaller, actionable steps. Instead of writing “work on business,” specify what that means—“draft blog post,” “create social media content,” etc. This will make it feel less daunting.

Step 4: Build in Flexibility

Life happens, especially with kids! Make sure to leave buffer times in your schedule for unexpected events. Flexibility is key—don’t beat yourself up if things don’t go exactly as planned.

Step 5: Reflect and Adjust

At the end of each week, take a moment to reflect on what worked and what didn’t. Adjust your workflow as necessary. This is an ongoing process, and it’s perfectly okay to make changes as your life evolves.

Staying Flexible: Adapting Your Workflow as Life Happens

One thing I’ve learned as a single mom is that flexibility is essential. Your workflow system should be a living document, adaptable to the ebb and flow of life. Change it when you need to.

Tips for Staying Flexible

  1. Regular Check-Ins: Schedule short check-ins with yourself, maybe once a week, to see how you’re feeling about your workload and responsibilities. (This one is a must so don’t push it to the side)
  2. Be Kind to Yourself: If something doesn’t go as planned, give yourself grace. It’s okay! You’re doing your best.
  3. Involve Your Kids: Depending on their ages, involve your kids in your planning process. Teach them about time management and responsibilities, and make it a fun family activity.
  4. Celebrate Wins: No matter how small, celebrate your achievements. Finished that blog post? Take a moment to high-five yourself!
  5. Adjust Expectations: It’s okay to lower your expectations sometimes. If you can’t get to everything on your list, focus on what’s most important and let the rest go for now.

You’ve Got This!

Building a workflow system from scratch may seem daunting, but with these steps, you’re well on your way to creating a more organized, efficient, and balanced life. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection. Embrace the chaos, cherish the little moments, and trust that you’re doing an incredible job.

So, what are you waiting for? Grab that notebook, prioritize your tasks, and start building your workflow system today. And if you found this post helpful, share it with another single mom who could use a little support. Together, we can conquer this beautiful chaos called life! 💖


I hope this resonates with you! You’ve got what it takes to turn your dreams into reality while taking care of your beautiful family. Let’s do this, mama! 🌼

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